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HOPE,
THE GREATEST NEED!
WHAT’S WRONG WITH COMPLAINING
THE GREATEST FATHER!
DEALING WITH HABITUAL SINS!
CHARACTER OF A HEALTHY CHURCH
PROFILE OF A GODLY MOTHER!
WHY WE LOSE OUR APPEAL!
ATTITUDE FOR MEMORIAL DAY
CHRISTIAN WORKER’S BEHAVIOR

June
5, 2003
FROM A PASTOR’S HEART
HOPE, THE GREATEST NEED!
No one will have a satisfactory
life who thinks that they were put here simply to enjoy life for a while and
then die. If we believe there is no hope of life after the grave, we will
develop the philosophy that we might as well eat, drink, and be merry. The
only people who can live this present life to its fullest will be those who
know there is an eternal and glorious life after they leave here.
What makes life worthwhile for a Christian is the hope
of a new resurrection body and eternal life. This is not a wishful thinking.
It is a fact not yet realized.
All who have this hope will change their attitudes, characters, and lives.
If our major goal in life is to hear our Lord and King say to us,
“Well done thou good and faithful servant,” our
lives can will have meaning. What would you tell a group of slaves who had
no chance of ever having freedom, owning a house, having a family, or going
to school? Is there any way they could enjoy life?
Yes! If they
have hope, they can have meaningful lives here and now.
If God could expect a group of
slaves to have meaningful and productive lives, how much more will he expect
us to have productive lives? We are told how we are to live whether we are
slaves or the employee of some business in Colossians
3:23-24, “And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto
men; Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the
inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.”
When a person has the hope that
Jesus will give reward him and give him a great inheritance, whether he is a
slave or an employee of a prominent business, he can serve his master as he
would the Lord. He must realize that it is the Lord he
is working for. Since it is the Lord who will reward us, we never have to
feel trapped in some bad situation.
This is why disillusioned and
disheartened people can be transformed from a people ready for the mental
ward to radiant and useful Christians. Once a person
becomes a Christian, he has a hope along with a purpose in this life. He no
longer has to come to the end of his life as many people do and realize that
their life counted for nothing!
Many
people do feel trapped in situations and think things can get no better.
They cannot see any light at the end of the tunnel. These people may have
had long illnesses like the woman with the issue of blood or the man born
blind. Only Jesus can give these people hope. Some people are overcome with
fears or problems that they think of committing suicide. They need hope that
will transform them so that they can enjoy the life God has given them.
Older people go through many changes such as retirement, losing friends by
death, sickness, and loneliness. The Christian’s hope
can and will transform their lives.
Have you heard of people having
nervous breakdowns? What happened? Did their nerves break down?
No! What broke down was the foundation of their
outlook on life. They have stumbled from one unsatisfying experience
to another. They have unsolved problems with no hope of things getting
better, and they feel trapped. What they need is hope! When a person
exhausts all their resources and realize that the problems are still there,
they feel like the man who painted himself in a corner.
This can lead to what is called
nervous break downs and depression. In both conditions, there is a failure
to function correctly in normal daily activities. These people must be
brought to a new hope that things can be better. Then they must be shown how
it is to be done. Romans 15:4 tells us where
this kind of hope comes from, “For whatsoever things
were written aforetime were written for our learning, that we through
patience and comfort of the scriptures might have hope.” The
knowledge of God, His will and direction in life comes through knowing the
scriptures. These promises of God will give anyone hope.
Our hope
is the knowledge of the fact that Jesus is coming again to give to us a
resurrection body like His. There will be no more pain, suffering,
heartaches, and tears. This is the hope of a Christian. This is not
simply pie in the sky by and by. This is pie that we can start slicing and
enjoying right now. Every person who knows Jesus Christ as his Lord and
Savior can have an abundant, happy, fulfilled, contented life right here and
now on this earth regardless of his circumstances.
This kind
of abundant living will come when a person changes the kingdom he lives in.
There are two kingdoms existing side by side right now. There is the
kingdom of darkness ruled by Satan and his demons. There is the kingdom of
God ruled by Jesus Christ. You must change your citizenship. This is done by
the new birth. Just as you were born into the kingdom
of darkness by a physical birth, you must be born into the kingdom of God by
a spiritual birth.
This comes when you are
willing to submit to Jesus Christ as your new Lord and King.
Romans 10:13 says, “For whosoever shall call upon the
name of the Lord shall be saved.” When you ask Jesus for the new
birth and salvation, He has promised to give it. Just believe Him. Faith is
simply believing what God has said. Then you can have hope. This hope will
completely change your life. You will have the nature of God in you with
Jesus as your high priest interceding for you. This is
why Jesus said you must be born again to see the kingdom of God.
Second
Peter 1:3 tells us how to live this new life,
“According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain
unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to
glory and virtue.” We receive all we need as we learn about Jesus
which comes through his Word. Get in a church where the word of God is
taught and preached. Then you can truly say, “The Lord
is my Shepherd, I shall not want.” Whether a slave or a prince, we
have been given all we need for an abundant life now and hope for a glorious
future!
(IMMANUEL BAPTIST CHURCH:
Pastor, Arnold Martin)
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FROM A PASTOR’S HEART
June 12, 2003
WHAT’S WRONG WITH COMPLAINING
People complain all the time and most people think little about it. It
is an almost everyday occurrence, but we would change our minds about
this terrible sin if we knew what God said about it.
Numbers 11:1 reveal God’s feeling about
complainers, “And when the people complained, it
displeased the LORD: and the LORD heard it; and his anger was kindled;
and the fire of the LORD burnt among them, and consumed them that were
in the uttermost parts of the camp.”
When
a person begins to complain, it becomes part of his personality. He will
be described as a complainer. How did these people develop the
habit of complaining? The same way people today
develop the habit of complaining. Notice where these people were. They
were in the uttermost part of the camp.
They were not close to the
godly leaders. They were like Peter when he was “following from afar.”
These people were on the outside edges of the camp.
At one time they were excited about what God was
doing, but they had drifted to the outside edges where the conversation
was about how hot the weather was.
We are molded by our
thought life. What we think and meditate on will transform us.
Second Corinthians 3:18 tells us,
“But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the glory of the
Lord, are changed into the same image from glory to glory, even as by
the Spirit of the Lord.” As we read, meditate, and obey the word
of God, the Holy Spirit molds us into the image of the Lord. The person
who is thinking about the Lord, His work, and His will for his life will
be changed into the image of Christ.
A
person who gets in a cult and studies that literature and associates
with those people and thinks about those evil things will be transformed
into the image those things produce. This is a moral law of God.
If you think about yourself most of the time, you become selfish. If you
think about others and how you can be used of God to help them and meet
their needs, you become generous and godly.
The
Israelites had no reason to complain. They had been delivered
from Egypt by the mighty power of God. They had seen the supernatural
plagues God used to deliver them and God’s protection when the death
angel passed over and spared those who had the blood on their door. They
had seen the parting of the Red Sea and the destruction of the
Egyptians. They saw God’s presence in the pillar of cloud by day and the
pillar of fire by night as well as receiving manna from heaven.
They were under divine guidance.
Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the
evidence of things not seen.” Verse 6 says, “But without faith it is
impossible to please him.” These people had plenty of evidence to
know that God was there delivering, protecting, and providing for them.
There was no reason to doubt nor to complain
against God. The same is true today. God wants us to have faith
in Him, and He gives plenty of evidence for us to have that kind of
faith.
Then why did these people complain so much that God sent fire and
consumed those who were in the uttermost part of the camp? Simply
because this was not a one time complaint. They were complainers in the
midst of over whelming evidence of the love, power, and provision of
God.
These
people were selfish.
Their thinking had gotten
so perverted that they wished to go back to Egypt to a life of slavery
rather than trusting God who brought them out.
They found something bad in everything that God did or allowed.
They didn’t like the manna. They didn’t like moving around. They didn’t
like the leadership of Moses and complained against him. We need to
learn something about the mercy of God. It has a limit! In this
situation, God was so displeased with these complainers that He wiped
them off the face of the earth.
If we
allow our minds to think too much about our own self, we will become
complainers. That is the reason we must be in God’s word and hear
what He has to say. We need to be attend a Bible preaching church so we
can get to know the mind and will of God and let His truth consume our
thoughts rather than being consumed with our self. Selfish people are
complainers!
To
complain and murmur is to distrust God. It is God who either
allows or brings every situation. He is complete control. We must keep
our minds filled with His word and practice trusting Him. Whatever fills
our minds controls our thoughts and behavior. If not thinking about holy
things, we can fall into the same sin Aaron and Miriam did. They said
about God’s servant Moses in Numbers 12:2,
“...Hath the Lord indeed spoken only by Moses? Hath He not spoken also
by us? And the Lord heard it.”
When the Lord heard it,
He was not pleased. They were complaining about the way God was doing
His business just like those who were consumed by the fire. In
verse eight, God tells them that Moses is
His servant and, “With him will I speak mouth to
mouth, even apparently, and not in dark speeches; and the similitude of
the LORD shall he behold: wherefore then were ye not afraid to speak
against my servant Moses?”
God said,
“Moses is my servant. I will speak through him. If
you complain and rebel against Him, it is the same as you complaining
and rebelling against Me. Why are you not afraid to do that?”
As a result, Miriam, Moses sister, was struck
immediately with leprosy from head to toe. Does that give an idea of
what God thinks about complaining?
When we complain against
our situation or circumstance, it is the same as complaining against our
God who is the supreme authority over the universe. We don’t need to
complain. We need to pray and be thankful
“IN” all things and
seek God’s will for our lives. This brings deliverance, peace and
God’s grace.
(IMMANUEL BAPTIST CHURCH: Pastor, Arnold Martin)
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FROM A PASTOR’S HEART
June 19, 2003
THE GREATEST FATHER!
Two activities a
Christian should be engaged in all the time are the study of the
Word and prayer. It is so important that the apostles said in
Acts 6:4, "But we will give ourselves
continually to prayer, and to the ministry of the word. Bible
study is God talking to people. Prayer is people talking to God. It
is sad that most people consider prayer to be like a parachute. They
are glad it is there, but hope they don't have to use it.
It is also tragic that God, who spoke this
world into existence, invites His people to come before the throne
to talk to Him, but many are too busy with other things.
There is a proper
way to study the Bible and there is a proper way to pray. Jesus
disciples asked Him to teach them how to pray. His teaching to them
is given to us in what we call the Disciples Prayer in
Matthew 6. Verse nine begins,"
After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven,
Hallowed be thy name." This shows us one facet of our
relationship with God. If you are a Christian, God is your heavenly
father. He is creator of all, but He is father only to those who
have put their faith and trust in him as their Lord and Savior.
We live in a world
that is falling apart, but we have a Father who is in total control
of all things and will work all things for
good to those who love him according to Romans 8:28. How can
we be lonely when we have a Father who is a friend who sticks closer
than a brother? How can we worry when our Father owns the cattle on
a 1,000 hills? Since he is "OUR" father, if we are to have His
blessings, we are to obey him. He is the best
father. He will teach, train, protect, and keep us on the right path
in life.
One of the most awesome things in life is that
the God who created the universe invites us to come into His throne
room to have fellowship with him. He wants to guide, provide,
and protect us. Never forget that when we pray, we are to pray to
our Father. But remember also, he is more than
our father. He is God! This means He is to be worshiped. He is also
the King, which means he is to be served and obeyed. He is the
Savior who is to be loved and adored.
This is why the next part of prayer is
“hallowing” his name. His “name" means all that He is. His name
includes His character, attributes, personality, desires, plans and
purposes. God has many names in the Bible and each one tells
us something about his character. The greatest
name of God in the Bible is "Lord Jesus Christ." This means
the Lord, Savior, King. He is the bread of life, the Good Shepherd,
the Wonderful Counselor, the Mighty God, and the Prince of Peace.
As we come to God as
our Father, we are to Hallow his name. We hallow his name by
believing in Him. Hebrews 11:6 says, "But
without faith it is impossible to please Him; for he that cometh to
God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of them that
diligently seek him." You cannot hallow his name without
knowing that He exists and that He rewards those who seek him. Many
people believe that He is, but do not seek him. A failure to seek
God is to fail to treat Him as holy and desirable. People do not
seek what they do not desire!
Every false thought
about God does irreverence to Him. If your knowledge about God is
not correct, you attribute things to his character and nature which
are not true. Even Job said, "Thou art cruel
to me." This was before Job knew God as he should have.
When you doubt God, disbelieve, or question
Him, you do not hallow his name. Our country is now under the
judgment of God because it does not hallow His name.
Proverbs 14:34 tells us, “Righteousness
exalteth a nation: but sin [is] a reproach to any people.” If
we obey God, He will exalt us. If we disobey and sin, we will be
reproached by Him.
We understand the
"unsaved" and the “ignorant” doing those things, but what about a
Christian who neglects the Word of God, Church, and prayer? By his
actions, he is not hallowing the name of God. When we say, “It is
God who gives life, but we make laws to allow doctors to take the
life of a child, we invite the wrath of our Holy God.
We hallow his name when
we are constantly aware of his presence. Psalm
16:8 says, "I have set the LORD always before me." The Lord
is always "at hand." He is always present, but we do not always live
like He is. When we practice the presence of God in our life, we
hallow His name. Jesus sees our every act and knows our every
thought. When we live like this is true, it hallows His name.
The single most
important thing we do to hallow the name of God is to obey Him. When
we fail to obey what we know God has commanded in his word, we do
Him irreverence. We are saying, "I know better
than God does about this issue." Disobedience to His known will is
to reveal that “self” is on the throne of your life. All unsaved
people live in constant rebellion to their creator, but a child of
God does not have to. Sin is a tragedy of a child of God disobeys
his heavenly father .
The Bible says we
are to pray about everything and to pray without ceasing.
This is practicing the presence of God in our lives. But
remember when we approach God, we are to come to Him as our heavenly
father all the while remembering that He is more. He is the creator
of this universe. He is to have his name hallowed in our lives as we
learn about his character and attributes. We hallow his name by
seeking to know Him, His will, purposes, and desires.
We hallow him most by receiving Him as our
Savior and confessing Him as Lord of our lives. If we do not submit
to Him as Lord, it follows that we will obey him.
If we hallow his
name, we put God on display to those around us. People will make a
judgment about God based on what they see in those who say they are
his children. If we glorify God in our lives, others will be drawn
to him. As they see the love, peace, joy, and contentment in our
lives, they know we have something they do not.
Why should we expect Him to answer our prayers while we are being
disobedient? Most parents know that they do their child great
harm to grant his requests while he is living in disobedience to
them. If we approach God as our Father all the
while hallowing his name, we can be assured of Him hearing us.
(IMMANUEL BAPTIST
CHURCH; Pastor, Arnold Martin)
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FROM A PASTOR’S
HEART
June 26, 2003
DEALING WITH HABITUAL SINS!
If a runner showed
up for a race with an over coat and combat boots on, he would
not be disqualified, but he sure would be prevented from doing
his best. The overcoat and combat boots would be hindrances, but
they are not illegal. If the same runner came to a race with
traces of illegal drugs in his body, he would be disqualified.
The drugs are illegal and would prevent him from running at all.
The same is true in life. There are
some things in our life that slow us down and prevent us from
doing our best. There are other things that will put us out of
the race God has put us in. Hebrews 12:1
tells us, “Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so
great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and
the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with
patience the race that is set before us.”
The weights in life are those things which
are not sinful, but they slow us down. The sin in our
life will trip us up so that we do even get the opportunity to
run. It would not be a sin for a pastor to wear a leather jacket
and ride a motorcycle on visitation, but it would not do a lot
to promote the church. That would be a weight that would slow
him down. Sin in his life can put him out of the ministry.
There are certain sins the Bible calls
“besetting” sins. These are sins that easily capture us.
These are sins that we commit, confess, and end up committing
again. Each person can have his own
besetting sins which are more difficult for him to deal with
than others.
These sins appeal to us and exert strong influence on our will
and emotions. Galatians 5:17 explains
this, “For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit
against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other:
so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.” These
besetting sins are so dangerous because they are so close to us.
They are in our flesh. They appeal to our fallen nature.
They continually look for opportunities to
manifest themselves and do us harm.
Since sin is in our
flesh, we can do something that is wrong and really think we are
doing good. Jeremiah 17:9 tells us why,
“The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately
wicked: who can know it?” No one can know what is in the
heart apart from the truth of God’s word. Few people believe
that the fallen flesh in them has the ability to do vile and
wicked things. The reason people do not
see their need for salvation is because of a deceptive heart.
These besetting
sins do not stay in our flesh. They will mingle in our motives
and behavior. They get so entangled in every fabric of our
thought life, behavior, purposes, and plans that they are
difficult to separate. This is why Paul cried out in
Romans 7:24, “O wretched man that I am!
who shall deliver me from the body of this death?”
Sometimes our best deeds can have bits of self righteousness and
pride mingled into it.
Second Corinthians 7:1 gives the
best advice on how to deal with these sins in our lives,
“Having therefore these promises, dearly
beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the
flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.”
Because of all that God has done and promised us, we are to
actively kill, put to death, and cleanse ourselves from every
filthy thing in both our flesh and our spirit. That would take
care of the problem, but how do we do that?
We have neither the power nor the ability
to cleanse ourselves of the sin in us, but God has given us a
way to do it. It is not in our ability, but in His mighty power.
Galatians 5:16 says, “This I say
then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of
the flesh.” Walking in the Spirit means we learn what is
the mind and will of the Spirit and then we obey. You cannot
obey the Spirit and the flesh at the same time. It sounds
simple, but there are some things that prevent us from
“walking in the Spirit.”
The first problem
is that we underestimate the
seriousness of our sin. We fail to see
what sin does to us, others, and the church. Sin steals our joy,
peace, contentment, ruins our fellowship with God, destroys our
usefulness in this life, steals our rewards in the life to come,
diminishes fruitfulness, destroys evangelism, hinders our
prayers, and brings the chastening of God.
One man said,
“There is more evil in the least sin than
in the greatest misery.” All of us do all we can to avoid
the miseries in life, but we tend to be tolerant of our sin. We
must learn that sin will cause us more damage to our mind,
happiness, joy, and health than all the calamities put together.
If we are to deal with sin in us, we must learn to look at sin
as God does. Sin dishonors God, abuses mercy, despises grace,
and defiles worship and fellowship.
If we are to
deal with sin in us, we must strongly purpose and vow to God
that we will not sin. Psalm 119:106 says,
“I have sworn, and I will perform it, that I will keep thy
righteous judgments.” What if we fail? We will fail, but
we will not fail as much as the person who never makes the vow
and promise. God knows our weakness.
That is why He put 1 John 1:9 in
the Bible.
If we are to deal
with sin, we must do as Jude 1:21 says,
“Keep yourselves in the love of God.” There is an area of
life where His love is continually revealed. This is the area
where love, fear, reverence, and obedience will be found. Don’t
stray away from the love of God. Scripture says, “For
it is God which worketh in you both to will and to do of his
good pleasure” (Phil. 2:13). These principles will help
us to deal with the sins in our lives. We must learn to destroy
sin or sin will destroy us! Psalm 119:9
gives us a good way to deal with the destruction of sin,
“Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his
way? By taking heed thereto according to thy Word.”
(IMMANUEL
BAPTIST CHURCH; Pastor, Arnold Martin)
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FROM A PASTOR’S
HEART
May 1, 2003
CHARACTER OF A HEALTHY CHURCH
We are very concerned about our physical bodies, but our
Lord is more concerned about our spiritual bodies. If we are
to be healthy spiritually, we must have healthy teaching
going into our minds which will produce healthy behavior.
False teachers give diseased doctrine which produces
diseased living. Titus 1:16
describes the false teachers, “They
profess that they know God; but in works they deny Him,
being abominable, and disobedient, and unto every good work
reprobate.”
Titus 2:1 says, “But speak thou the
things which become sound doctrine.” For a Christian
or a church to be healthy, there must be sound doctrine, but
that alone is not enough. There must also be a “living out”
of the sound doctrine that is taught. Doctrine and duty
always go together. Romans chapters
1-11 contain a lot of doctrine and truths. Beginning
with Romans 12 there are the
duties we are to do because of the truths in the first 11
chapters. The Lord wants us to know truth and then have that
truth influence the way we live.
What value does truth have if it does
not change the way we live our lives? What good is it
doing people to go to church for years but not have their
lives changed? We are told to be holy as our Lord is holy.
If the truths of God are not transforming us more into the
image of Christ, something is wrong with the doctrine or
there is disobedience in the people hearing it.
Titus 2:15 says, “These things speak,
and exhort, and rebuke with all authority. Let no man
despise thee.” Scripture is not a book of
suggestions! It is a Book of commands from our Lord! We are
to continually speak these truths and exhort people to live
in accordance to them. Our Lord wants a healthy church
produced by healthy teaching and a call to live according to
that truth.
We know
obedience to God’s word brings personal blessings to us, but
it also has a great impact on the lives of other people.
Titus 2:5 says to women, “To be
discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their
own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.”
When these women live in obedience to God’s word, the word
of God is not blasphemed. If they live
in rebellion to Scripture, God’s word and His church will be
blasphemed.
The way a
Christian lives will make Christianity either appealing or
appalling. Our lives as believers will attract people to our
faith or cause them to turn away from it. How we live will
determine how others feel about the Lord, His Word, and His
Church. The world does not judge us by our theology. It
judges us by our behavior. They judge
the validity of Scripture by how we act. A professed
Christian who does not live a godly life brings reproach on
God. Why should people think Scripture can change a
person’s life if it has not changed yours?
God’s word is scandalized when people
say they believe it, but do not live by it! The
credibility of the Gospel is tied to the integrity of those
who claim it. King David is an illustration of this. He
lusted, committed adultery and had Bathsheba’s husband
killed. After being found out, David said,
“I have sinned against the LORD. And
Nathan said unto David, The LORD also hath put away thy sin;
thou shalt not die. Howbeit, because by this deed thou hast
given great occasion to the enemies of the LORD to
blaspheme, the child also that is born unto thee shall
surely die” (2 Sam 12:13-14).
King David
was forgiven, but because of his ungodly behavior, not only
was a family destroyed and a child died, but he had given
the enemies of the Lord a reason to blaspheme God. It was
because of the bad behavior of the whole nation of Israel
the our Lord said in Romans 2:24, “For
the name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles through
you.” They were to be a witness for the Lord so that
His name would be glorified, but because of bad behavior, it
was blasphemed.
Our Lord tells
us in Matthew 5:16, “Let your light so
shine before men, that they may see your good works, and
glorify your Father which is in heaven.” Our light
shines as we do good works that others can see. When that
happens, our Lord is glorified. When there are no works or
the works are bad, our Lord is blasphemed.
Our behavior has a great impact on
others as they observe us.
If we do live
godly lives, we can count on others saying evil things about
us, but we are to make sure that when people say bad things
that it is not true. Don’t give any reason for them to
slander you. First Peter 2:12
tells us why, “Having your
conversation honest among the Gentiles: that, whereas they
speak against you as evildoers, they may by your good works,
which they shall behold, glorify God in the day of
visitation.”
How can God get
glory in the day of visitation? The answer is that when
someone hears the Gospel and receives the Lord Jesus as
Savior, God is glorified. When a person who has criticized
you sees your life of faith, which is learning and obeying
God’s word, their criticism will be turned to curiosity.
As they learn the Gospel, your holy
life will be a tool God uses to turn the curiosity into
conversion.
That is the
reason we are to live holy and godly lives. We are not to be
a stumbling block to people being saved but a stepping
stone.
May all Christians live in such a way that God is not
blasphemed. If you are criticized, make sure it is unjust.
Why?
“That they may adorn the doctrine of
God our Saviour in all things” (Titus 2:10). We are
to live in such a way that Scripture is attractive to
others. God is our Savior. We must
live like we have “saved” lives. Lives characterized by
purity, holiness, joy, and peace adorn the gospel!
What we believe
is linked to how we live and how we live is directly linked
to people getting saved. If we are going to have an impact
on this world, it will because of God’s truth going into our
minds and living it out in righteous behavior!
(IMMANUEL
BAPTIST CHURCH: Pastor, Arnold Martin)
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FROM A
PASTOR’S HEART
May 8, 2003
PROFILE OF A GODLY MOTHER!
Motherhood is exalted by God, but in years we have seen
battered children, increase in divorce, and millions of
children slaughtered in the womb of their mothers. Our
feelings about motherhood may change, but God's does
not. God has planned that women exert a tremendous
influence on the character of a society. The more godly
women are, the more godly children will be.
Hannah
lived in a tragic time. Sampson was dead and the nation
was impotent against its enemies because of their
rebellion to God. A special man was needed to call the
nation back to God; therefore, God had a special lady to
rear that child. Hannah had a right relationship with
her husband which is the environment in which godly
children will develop. They worshiped the Lord together
(1 Samuel 1). Hannah
married a man who loved the Lord. Ladies, you can still
be a godly mother with an imperfect husband. Hannah's
husband had another wife besides Hannah, but this did
not prevent Hannah from loving him.
People who look for a perfect mate
will be looking for a long time. If they think they have
found one, it won’t be long after marriage that they
realize they made a mistake.
There is no
such creature as a perfect mate.
There will
be problems in any marriage, but
problems can be stepping stones to a strong relationship
when handled God’s way.
Believers
are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers.
When a saved person dates or marries the unsaved, he
will suffer many self inflicted storms in his life
because of violating God’s commands.
Our country is in a sad shape spiritually primarily
because of a failure of God's people. Our
problems today are not because of drugs, politics, or
education. Scripture tells us what is needed to get back
on the right road, "If my people,
which are called by my name, shall humble themselves,
and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked
ways, then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive
their sin, and will heal their land" (2 Chr 7:14).
God will heal our land when His people get right
with him.
Hannah's
husband saw her weeping, but he knew there was nothing
he could do. She wanted a child, but her womb had been
closed by God. She was very sorrowful, but she took her
problem to the one who could do something about it. It
is tragic that a husband or wife expects their mate to
do for them what only God can do. There has never been a
woman who could make a man happy, nor a man who could
make a woman happy.
Why?
Because that is something only God
can do.
It is being very unfair to our mate to want them to do
for us what only God can do.
Hannah
was filled with sorrow, but she maintained a character
of humility. She did not lash out at her "adversary" in
verse 6.
She did not make her husband's
life miserable. She was still lovable even though
sorrowful. Too many times when a person has
sorrow, it so fills them that they make everyone around
them miserable. Her humility was revealed when she was
rebuked by Eli the high priest. He thought she was
drunk. Instead of rebuking him for his mistake, she
revealed a submissive spirit and showed the utmost
respect to this aged high priest.
When you
read her prayer, you know she was no stranger to praying
to God. Hannah became a mother by faith.
Verse 17 says, "Then Eli answered
and said, Go in peace: and the God of Israel grant thee
thy petition that thou hast asked of him." She
walked away from there and "her
countenance was no more sad." She believed God
had heard her prayer. The next verse proved that He did.
She got Samuel from the Lord and she lived to rear that
boy for God. She had a purpose in
mind and she worked toward that purpose.
Hannah started motherhood right.
She prayed to God for a child. She then committed that
child to the Lord and promised to rear him for the
Lord's use. We need to know that a child is given
by God to parents and is to be reared for Him. She had
an objective in mind for Samuel. He was going to be a
man of God and that was the way she raised him. This
ought to be the objective of every parent today. Every
child should be committed to the Lord and then the
parents should commit themselves to the Lord for rearing
that child.
Titus 2
says that the older women are to
teach the younger to be chaste, keepers at home, lovers
of their husbands, and trainers of their children.
The more godly, virtuous, pure, and prayerful we
are, the less the things of the
world will have a hold on us. It is sad that most
children today are being trained, not by godly mothers,
but by the ungodly T.V.
We
have a brand of children who are "Hollywood Raised."
They spend more time in front of the T.V. than in front
of their parents. The Bible says that the rod and
reproof will give wisdom, but a child left to himself
brings his mother to shame. Hannah did a tremendous job
in training Samuel. Hannah kept her promise to God.
She took Samuel to Eli but in reality, turned him over
to the Lord.
It was
difficult to leave that little boy with Eli, but she had
reared him for that purpose. How did Hannah feel?
"And Hannah prayed, and said, My
heart rejoiceth in the Lord" (1 Sam 2:1). She did
not rejoice in Samuel, but in God who gave her Samuel.
The contrast to Samuel is given by the sons of Eli,
"Now the sons of Eli were son of
Belial: they knew not the Lord" (1 Sam 2:12) They
were priests, but they did not know God. They led Israel
astray. They had the first religious con game going on
in the temple. How could that have happened to the sons
of the high priest? Chapter 3:13
tells why God had to destroy those two wicked boys,
"For I have told him that I will
judge his house for ever for the iniquity which he
knoweth; because his sons made themselves vile, and he
restrained them not."
Since the sons of Eli had never
been saved, their old nature controlled them and
produced lying, stealing, fornication, and rebellion to
authority. The Bible says foolishness is bound in the
heart of a child. This requires parents who loves the
Lord and who knows His word to train those children in
the way they should go. God told Eli that he,
"honorest thy sons above me" (I
Sam. 2:29). When God tells us something, but we
decide to do something else, we are putting that above
God.
Hannah was right with her husband and right with God.
She wanted a child and then reared that child for the
Lord. He became a mighty man of God. May we have more
mothers like Hannah who produce mores sons like Samuel!
(IMMANUEL BAPTIST CHURCH: Pastor, Arnold Martin)
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FROM A
PASTOR’S HEART
May 15, 2003
WHY WE LOSE OUR APPEAL!
The
true church of the Lord Jesus is the most important
organization on earth. It is there that people learn
about God, get saved, and then learn God’s plan for
their lives. The church gives fellowship, love,
comfort, and meaning to life. The church is where we
can learn to live fulfilling lives that count for
time and for eternity. Why is it then that people
neglect the very institution that Jesus came and
died for? Why has the church lost some of its
appeal?
Titus 2 has the answer.
Here we are told how church members are to behave.
Verse 10 gives the reason why,
“that they may adorn the
doctrine of God our Saviour in all things.”
When Christians live in the way described in Titus
2, they will “adorn” the doctrine of God. Adorn
means to make attractive or to appeal to. When we
fail to live like this, we become a stumbling block
rather than a stepping stone to people becoming
Christians.
The
church that appeals must teach the right doctrine.
Titus 2:1 says, “But speak
thou the things which become sound doctrine.”
Sound means healthy. We are to speak and teach
healthy doctrine which is opposite of what the false
teachers are doing. Healthy doctrine leads to
healthy living. False or
unhealthy doctrine leads to unhealthy living.
The
next verses describe how each group in the church is
to behave. Verse 2 says
of the older men, “That the
aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith,
in charity, in patience.” The older men are
to be sober which means they are to have their
priorities in life right. They have lived long
enough to realize the mistakes they have made. They
have gained experience and wisdom and made the
adjustments. They are to be serious minded and show
self restraint. They are to be
sound in the faith, which means they learn and obey
the Scripture.
The
older men are to be sound in their charity. Charity
is love in action.
Matthew 5:16 says,
“Let your light so shine
before men, that they may see your good works, and
glorify your Father which is in heaven.”
Letting our light shine is doing good works that
others see which result in God getting glory by our
lives.
The
next verse instructs older women,
“The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour
as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given
to much wine, teachers of good things” (Titus 2:3).
The older women are to be “priestlike” or
holy in behavior, refrain from gossiping, and are to
teach good things. What are the good things they are
to teach and to whom are they to teach them?
Verses 4-5 gives the
answers, “That they may teach
the young women to be sober, to love their husbands,
to love their children, To be discreet, chaste,
keepers at home, good, obedient to their own
husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.”
The older women are to teach the younger
women these things because they are not known nor
practiced naturally.
Older women are to teach
younger women to be sober. This means to
develop a right set of priorities. Older women have
learned from their mistakes and now have their
priorities right. What an advantage a young woman
has who has a godly woman to instruct her. Many
mistakes in life can be avoided like this.
They are to teach the younger
women God’s plan for their lives which will fulfill
their created purpose, make them a blessing to the
world, bring joy to their life now, and bring honor
to God. They are to teach them to love their
husbands. This does not come naturally.
Society teaches them to love whoever they want and
fulfill their lust and desires and farm their
children out to others to rear.
When
young women are taught to love their husbands and be
a “one man woman,” they avoid much trouble in life.
As they learn to invest time, energy and effort in
their husband, they will find their emotions follow
their efforts. Matthew 6:21
tells us, “For where your treasure is, there will
your heart be also.” One reason marriages
fail is that the woman or man begins to invest their
time and energies else where and the love they
should have for their mate is dwindles. Whoever we
invest our time, energy and efforts in will be where
our hearts are.
They are to be taught to love
their children. This means they are taught to do
what is right by your children. Those parents
who sued the school for suspending their children
for misbehavior are not loving their children. They
are not teaching them respect for authority and that
behavior has consequences. They are not modeling
what a godly parent should be. How are these young
people going to act when they get older? Just like
their ungodly parents! That is how they have been
taught. They must be taught what Scriptures says
about rearing their children in the nurture and
admonition of the Lord.
They
are to be taught to be keepers at home and to be
obedient to their husbands. This is about as
opposite as you can get from what society is trying
to teach young women. Each
must decide if they want to be godly or worldly. If
you want to be a godly person, you will submit to
the teaching of God’s word.
Philippians 2 tells us
to look on the things of others as more important
than our things. Verse 3 says,
“but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other
better than themselves.” We are told to love
our enemies and pray for those who despitefully use
us. If we are to do these things, surely a man ought
to be able to love his wife as Christ loved the
church and a woman ought to love her husband and be
obedient to him as Scripture commands!
These are commands from God to his people. As men
and women of God, we decide to be obedient or to be
disobedient. When we obey, we adorn the gospel and
attract people to the Lord and His church. When we
are disobedient and live like the rest of the world,
we are responsible for the word of God being
blasphemed because of our behavior!
(IMMANUEL BAPTIST CHURCH: Pastor, Arnold Martin)
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FROM A PASTOR’S HEART
May 22, 2003
ATTITUDE FOR MEMORIAL DAY
Memorial Day is celebrated the last Monday in
May in remembrance of our dead service men of
all our wars. If we don’t set aside a time to
remember important things, we will forget. It is
so natural to begin to take the blessings of God
or of people for granted. This is especially
true now as we think about the war we had in
Afghanistan and Iraq. God was so good to give us
quick victories and so few deaths. We must
remember the sacrifices made.
There is an attitude we need to have now and the
rest of the year so that our thinking remains
right. It is the attitude
of thanksgiving. There are many
Christians who struggle with their contentment
and joy in life. They seem to be in the dumps
most of the time but do not know why. One reason
for this is because of a lack of thanksgiving.
We know we cannot be happy, content, and
satisfied if we are in rebellion to our Creator.
We certainly won’t remember what other people do
for us if we forget what God has done! We are
told, “In every thing give
thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ
Jesus concerning you” (1Thess 5:18). If
we are not giving thanks in everything, we are
in violation of God’s command and we will not
remember what we should.
The
rich farmer in Luke 12
through giving thanks was unnecessary. He
thought he deserved what he had and was looking
forward to future prosperity, but he was
ungrateful what God and others had done for him.
Since he was not thankful to his fellow man or
God, he devised a selfish plan. He said,
“I will say to my soul,
Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many
years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be
merry. But God said unto him, Thou fool, this
night thy soul shall be required of thee: then
whose shall those things be, which thou hast
provided? So is he that layeth up treasure for
himself, and is not rich toward God” (Luke
12:19-21).
Since he was not thankful to God, he forgot
whose land the crops had been grown on and who
sent the rain. He failed to realize that
“every good and perfect
gift comes down from the Father of lights.”
How many of us commit the same sin he
did. None of us have power to protect our lives
against accidents, disease, heartache, or death.
Our life, health, protection, and all we have
comes from God, but do we thank Him for his
abundant grace? How would we feel if we provided
many gifts to someone and they took them, used
them, but never thanked us for them? We probably
would stop giving them, right?
When we fail to give God thanks, it is not only
the sin of ingratitude, it is also the sin of
unbelief. To live a thankless life is to live
like the pagans. They do not recognize God for
all the good He does for them. Sure, we know God
is there, but do we acknowledge Him and give Him
the thanks He deserves? To fail in thanksgiving
is to live like the foolish farmer.
Anyone who goes day after day without thanking
God for all His blessings is acting like the
unsaved.
If we fail to give thanks,
we reveal that we are quenching the Holy Spirit
who leads us to thank and praise God.
Unthankful people are selfish people. We can’t
be filled with joy, peace and contentment if we
are not filled with the Spirit who is the one
who brings these attitudes.
The
Pharisee in Luke 18:11-12
demonstrates the thanksgiving of a hypocrite,
“The Pharisee stood and
prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee,
that I am not as other men are, extortioners,
unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican. I
fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all
that I possess.” He is acting like he is
in his house giving himself praise and thanks
rather than in God’s house praising and thanking
Him. This is not the kind of thanksgiving we are
to have.
The right attitude about
thanksgiving is illustrated by one of the ten
lepers Jesus healed in Luke 17. All ten
lepers were healed of their dreadful disease,
but only one came back to give Jesus thanks. All
ten received bodily healing, but only the one
who came back to give thanks received spiritual
healing and eternal life. That leper illustrates
the thanksgiving that pleases God.
John 4:23-24
reveals that God seeks people to worship Him,
“But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true
worshipers shall worship the Father in spirit
and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to
worship him. God is a Spirit: and they that
worship him must worship him in spirit and in
truth.” God is honored when we worship
correctly. Part of the correct way to worship is
by knowing how we are to come before Him.
Psalm 100:4 says, “Enter
into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his
courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and
bless his name.”
Ephesians 5:20
tells us when, for what, how, and to whom thanks
is to be given, “Giving
thanks always for all things unto God and the
Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.”
When are we to give thanks? Always!
Regardless of what comes
our way, we are to recognize God’s control of
our lives to conform us to the image of Jesus
Christ. If bad things happen and we get
upset or lose our joy, it shows that we have
forgotten our Creator’s leadership in our lives.
There will be some bad things that happen to us
for which we cannot be thankful, but we can
still look to God who has promised in
Romans 8:28 to turn
everything into something good for us. It
is easy to be thankful when we are blessed. It
requires spiritual maturity to be thankful in
all things.
A second level of
thanksgiving is to be thankful for some victory
we hope will come. This is in
anticipation of something and requires more
maturity and faith. The third level of
thanksgiving is the hardest. This it to thank
God while you are in a battle and do not know
how it will turn out! Daniel illustrates this by
the way he continued to pray even though it
looked like it would cost him a trip to the
lion’s den. We are to give thanks always and for
all things. How? In the name of Jesus.
To whom are we to be thankful? God the Father.
If God is our Father and He is all powerful, if
we trust in Him, we are able to give thanks
continually.
As
we think about Memorial Day this year, may we do
so with great thanksgiving to our God who has
protected us and blessed us with a great land
and great protection. Think about God and thank
Him. Think about those who have served and given
their lives so we could be free to live and to
worship God.
“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man
lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13).
(IMMANUEL BAPTIST CHURCH: Pastor, Arnold Martin)
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May 29, 2003
CHRISTIAN WORKER’S
BEHAVIOR
One reason Christianity has little appeal to
many people is because of the bad behavior
of many Christians, especially in the work
place. Everyone would want what Christianity
professes to give, but how do they know it
is real if they do not see it being lived
out in the lives of those who profess to
have it. We know our God is a saving God who
transforms people’s lives, but if we do not
reveal transformed lives to the unsaved,
they will not believe what we say.
Titus 1:16
describes many professed believes today,
“They profess that
they know God; but in works they deny him,
being abominable, and disobedient, and unto
every good work reprobate.” Many say
they are believers, but are disobedient to
the authority over them and do not produce
good works. These
people make a claim of Christianity, but do
not reveal it in their lives; therefore,
what they say about Christ or His church
falls on deaf ears.
Jesus tells us how to live and how to bring
glory to God in
Matthew 5:16, “Let your light so shine
before men, that they may see your good
works, and glorify your Father which is in
heaven.” Letting our light shine is
doing good works. This is true in every
situation, but especially in the work place.
Scripture has much to say about the behavior
of believers.
Philippians 2:14-15 tell us,
“Do all things without
murmurings and disputings: That ye may be
blameless and harmless, the sons of God,
without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked
and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as
lights in the world.”
We are to be a light
to the lost, but if we are murmuring or
complaining when things do not go our way,
we reveal that we are no different than they
are. Why would they listen to us when
we tell them about a saving and transforming
God?
Scripture tells us how to behave where we
work, “Servants, obey
in all things your masters according to the
flesh; not with eyeservice, as menpleasers;
but in singleness of heart, fearing God: And
whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the
Lord, and not unto men; Knowing that of the
Lord ye shall receive the reward of the
inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ”
(Col 3:22-23).
A Christian employee’s mission field is his
work place; therefore, he must act according
to Scripture. This is why he is to work the
same when the boss is not there as when he
is. The reason is that
he fears the Lord and wants to please Him.
He knows that what he does on the job
is to be done as unto the Lord. This means
that he is to work as if Jesus were his
boss. The informed
believer knows that the reward he gets is
from the Lord, not his boss. What a
difference this would make in the way we
think about our job!
A Christian must be obedient to the
authority over him. His boss is his
authority. Romans 13:1
says “Let every soul be subject unto the
higher powers. For there is no power but of
God: the powers that be are ordained of
God.” When we are obedient to our
boss, it is the same as being obedient to
our Lord.
God is a God of order.
In the home, church, business, or
government, God has established a chain of
command. When we line
up under any authority over us and are
submitted to them, we are being submitted to
our Lord. Rebellion to the authority
over us is rebellion to our Lord.
A Christian may ask,
“What if your boss is overbearing and
abusive?” Scripture tells us what to
do, “Servants, be
subject to your masters with all fear; not
only to the good and gentle, but also to the
froward” (1 Peter 2:18). We must be
submitted even to a bad boss.
Why? The Lord says so!
Ephesians 6:5 tell us
“Servants, be obedient to them that are your
masters according to the flesh, with fear
and trembling, in singleness of your heart,
as unto Christ.” They are to obey
with a fear in their heart that they could
behave in such a way as to bring dishonor to
His Lord or His church. The way we act at
work should be as unto the Lord.
We are to work as if
the Lord Himself were our boss. The fact is,
He is! He sees all we do and knows all we
think.
Titus 2:9 tells us,
“Exhort servants to be obedient unto their
own masters, and to please them well in all
things; not answering again.” We are
to be obedient to our bosses and we are to
work with excellence for them. As we do a
good job and please our boss, we are
pleasing the Lord who gave these commands.
Titus 2:9 says, “not
answering again.” This means to talk
back or argue. If you want to get on the
bosses bad list, argue or talk back to him!
If there is a means to offer suggestions, do
it, but always with the attitude that
whatever the boss says is what you will do,
even if you know a better way. The issue is
not that you know a better way or that he
may be wrong in the way he acts. The issue
is that you are to be obedient to the Lord
who says to be obedient, reverent, loyal,
and work with excellence for your boss.
Our Lord knows that there must be order. All
of us know that anything with two heads is a
freak. Anytime a
person gets angry or talks back to his boss
is because he either does not know what
Scripture says or he is trying to manipulate
the situation. That is a sure way of
making the boss and other employees think
that there is nothing special about you.
Our Lord gives another attitude we are to
have in Titus 2:10,
“Not purloining, but shewing all good
fidelity; that they may adorn the doctrine
of God our Saviour in all things.”
Purloining mean to steal. Stealing may be in
the form of coming in a few minutes late or
leaving a few minutes early or using the
company telephone for personal business.
Either one is stealing from your employer.
Why are Christian
employees to be honest, submissive, loyal,
and good workers? So that the gospel will
not be blasphemed. The way the
unsaved world thinks about you and the
gospel depends on how you behave, especially
at work!
(IMMANUEL BAPTIST CHURCH: Pastor, Arnold
Martin)
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